Blame the parents?
“We grieve with these parents, but we also blame them. We put ourselves in their shoes — losing your child and carrying the burden of what they did to others before they died. And yet, we also can’t believe the parents didn’t know. Because, quite simply, if it is possible for THEM not to see the truth of THEIR children, then that means it is possible for US not to see what OURS are capable of. The idea that doing the best you can is sometimes not enough is its own kind of horror.” —
Lisa Belkin, Should we blame the parents of the Nevada school shooter?